Memory Limit
Magento 2 Allowed Memory exhausted error when compile code
you need to increase the memory_limit in php.ini
and as a quick solution you can use these commands directly in the command line
php -dmemory_limit=5G bin/magento setup:di:compile
and
php -dmemory_limit=5G bin/magento setup:static-content:deploy
another code for the composer update
php -dmemory_limit=5G composer.phar update
php -d memory_limit=-1 /usr/local/bin/composer update